shared calendar issues

Installed Mojave and doing my native app stress test (do this every so often) to make sure I can’t get away with native vs 3rd party.

Dark mode is so sharp!

Anyways… I always had issues for how the calendar app behaves with shared calendars (google apps).

I think I figured out how suppress notifications for other calendars but it still shows all the invites under that icon. So aggravating! Anyway to disable this?