A few things I’ve learned and rely on after designing/installing a lot of home networks.
Wired, of course, is always best. Wired using MOCA or other adapters over existing coax, and sometimes powerline adapters, is usually better than fancy mesh wireless.
All recent and current UniFi AP’s can be connected using wireless backhaul. The presence of lack of the word “mesh” in the marketing name of the AP is just that - meaningless marketing words.
However, and this can be the controversial bit, UniFi doesn’t make any triple-radio AP’s like Eero Pro and a few other consumer brands that emphasize wireless mesh setups.
Earlier deployments of UniFi definitely saw a decrease in bandwidth by 50% as the backhaul traffic had to share the same radio used for client traffic.
In the past few years, with multiple frequencies and multiple bands in dual radio AP’s, UniFi seems to have gotten smarter in assigning bands and multiplexing traffic.
I’ve never seen a definitive analysis by unbiased third parties, and I’ve never had a setup where I could a side-by-side comparison that I trust the results myself, but anecdotally, if a installation is primarily wireless mesh, I still prefer other brands instead of UniFi, but UniFi mesh can be more than ok for most homes.
Be careful using the LR (long-range) version of UniFi AP’s for residential installs. These AP’s are designed for high density, high-throughput environments like sports arenas, theaters, hotel lobbies, etc.
They are not necessarily best suited for home use. With the higher bands of Wi-Fi having even less ability to travel through a single wall, let alone multiple walls, a more robust deployment strategy is to have multiple lower-power, smaller range AP’s than one “mega” AP to try and cover any particular area.
Keep in mind that Wi-Fi networking is two-way communications. Just because you have a mega-AP with multiple radios and high power, doesn’t mean the client at the other end can communicate back to it effectively. (Edit: technically Wi-Fi is half-duplex while wired Ethernet is full-duplex, but the end desire is two-way comms in both cases.)
Think of a huge radio tower on a hill trying to make a high-bandwidth two-way connection to a hearing-aid size radio in your pocket.
(Remember iPhone “your holding it wrong” antenna gate?)
Lastly, and this is more an observation about Wi-Fi versus wired in general - techies sometimes like to claim their skill in mapping out the coverage of Wi-Fi AP’s, their ability to manually tune radio channels and AP power levels, allows them to create the “perfect” Wi-Fi coverage.
All the best Wi-Fi designs need to keep one thing in mind - you can’t fix your neighbor’s bad Wi-Fi installation. If Wi-Fi signals bleed over or overlap with yours, what is optimal at first can change at any time when a neighbor changes their network.
For many of the client projects I have worked on, aesthetics was more important than theoretical ideal performance. We tended to use more AP’s than necessary, and mount them in the ceiling in closets, cabinets, and other out-of-sight locations.
Putting a UFO on the ceiling in the center of beautiful home, no matter how “ideal” that location should be, was not allowed.